I decided awhile ago that I am not going to have negativity in my circle of "family" that I choose to surround myself with. This life is too short and precious to allow negative people, places and things to bring me down and influence me in any negative way.
I do not have any way to even get in contact with my mother and sister, no phone number, address...nothing. My father lives about 10 minutes away from me and has no interest in seeing me or his grandson. It makes me hurt and sad that they are missing out on a wonderful and special relationship with my wonderful son. And me. I am actually a very warm, empathetic, compassionate, forgiving and accepting human being. If they would only take the time to get to know me.
That is why I am aware that I have the innate human right to form and make up my own family, with people of my choice. Warm wise souls who have been through the bullshit, fought the good fight. I just want positivity, I want to live a positive, healthy, progressive life of spiritual evolution.
Everyone deserves to be happy, to let go of any resentment, and have inner peace. Love is the answer and love always prevails.